For education and life help, please contact the Ministry of Labor, Health and Social Affairs: https://www.mags.nrw/inklusionsportal
Further information on mental disabilities can be found at: https://www.lebenshilfe-nrw.de/de/dienstleistungen_einrichtungen/index.php
Responsible for pupils with a disability is the school authority, in whose district the pupil goes to school (https://www.schulministerium.nrw.de/docs/bp/Eltern/Beratung-Service/Besondere-Herausforderungen/Sonderpaedagogischer-Foerderbedarf /FAQ-Sonderpaedagogische-Foerderung/index.html).
The school authorities can be found at: https://www.schulministerium.nrw.de/docs/bp/Ministerium/Geschaeftsbereich/Staatliche-Schulaemter/Adressen-Schulaemter/index.html
Information on gifted education in North Rhine-Westphalia can be found at: https://www.zukunftsschulen-nrw.de/cms/front_content.php?idcat=138
You can find a current project for gifted education under: https://www.bildung-und-begabung.de/begabungslotse/datenbank/bildungseinrichtungen/ministerium-fuer-schule-und-weiterbildung-des-landes-nordrhein-westfalen
Counseling centers for parents and pupils with special talents and giftedness can be found at: https://www.dghk.de/regionalvereine/nordrhein-westfalen/